Wedding Planning Exposed: The Best Man's Role

The best man traditionally offers the first toast at a wedding.  His toast can offer a thought provoking look at married life, honor his friendship with the groom or reveal intimate and often embarrassing details of the couple's courtship.  The traditional toast is simply a short speech given verbally but best men are free to try other approaches to the toast such as a slideshow or a video presentation.  The best man could also choose to give a verbal toast with a few new twists.

A slideshow is on increasingly popular way for the best man to toast the new couple.  You could take the opportunity to display various pictures of the bride and groom separately and as a couple.  One option is to interview both parents prior to the wedding and ask them to contribute pictures of their child from when they were a baby until now.  You would ask the parents a series of questions about the bride or grooms childhood, adolescence, and adult life.  Then you could take the pictures and arrange them in a slideshow presentation that you could narrate with information gleaned from your interviews.  This type of toast is especially popular with the older generation in attendance at the wedding because many of them knew the bride or groom as children and will enjoy reminiscing about those times through the pictures and stories.

A video presentation is another unique way to make the best man's toast.  One way to do this is to arrange meetings with close friends and family members and ask them a series of questions about love and relationships and videotape their answers.  You could then videotape yourself giving a short toast and introducing the other members on the tape.  This is an excellent idea for the best man who is afraid that he will forget what he wants to say on the wedding day.  The video allows him to practice his speech and record it over and over again until it is perfect.

There are a variety of toasting options available to the best man.  Whether he chooses to speak from the heart with an unprepared speech or invest time prior to the wedding to put together an elaborate presentation, the toast is sure to be appreciated as long as the best man is speaking from his heart.

 

Jorge Valdivia

Mirage Artistic Photography, 549 Washington Avenue, Belleville, NJ, 07109, United States

Mirage Artistic Photography